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“The only answer that has any chance against against the information saturation kids face these days is to talk openly with kids, early enough and often enough and unflinchingly enough that you set the precedent of being the safe place they can go to ask their difficult questions. It has to happen…” quote by Carolyn Hax
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“The only answer that has any chance against against the information saturation kids face these days is to talk openly with kids, early enough and often enough and unflinchingly enough that you set the precedent of being the safe place they can go to ask their difficult questions. It has to happen starting when they're 2 or 3, and they ask you where babies come from and instead of freaking out and deflecting, you give facts commensurate with their ability to understand.”

Carolyn Hax

About This Quote

Source Column: The New York Times, 2022

Open, age‑appropriate conversations about sex and media protect kids from misinformation.

In simple terms: Talk openly with kids early about tough topics.

Key Takeaway

Start honest talks early.

Themes

parenting communication media literacy

Mood

cautious supportive

Type

advice educational

When to use this quote

  • family discussions
  • school curricula
  • online safety
  • parent‑child trust

Key Concepts

Sex education information overload child development

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you gauge a child's readiness?
  • What facts match their developmental level?
A Different Perspective

Some families may find such openness uncomfortable.

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