Child Quote by Carol S. Dweck
“One very common thing is that often very brilliant children stop working because they're praised so often that it's what they want to live as - brilliant - not as someone who ever makes mistakes. It really stunts their motivation.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Mindset, 2006
Excessive praise for brilliance can lock children into a fixed identity, stunting growth and resilience.
In simple terms: Too much praise can hinder development.
Key Takeaway
Encourage effort over innate talent.
Themes
growth
identity
motivation
Mood
reflective
educational
Type
motivational
psychological
When to use this quote
- education
- parenting
- coaching
- talent development
Key Concepts
fixed mindset
self‑esteem
learning theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you balance praise with challenge?
- What signs show a child is stuck in a fixed mindset?
A Different Perspective
Overpraise may create fear of failure.
