Children Quote by Carol S. Dweck
““If parents want to give their children a gift, the best thing they can do is to teach their children to love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy effort, and keep on learning. That way, their children don’t have to be slaves of praise.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Mindset, 2006
Teaching children to love challenges, mistakes, effort, and continuous learning frees them from needing external praise.
In simple terms: Encourage love of learning over seeking approval.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate a growth mindset.
Themes
education
parenting
growth
Mood
encouraging
optimistic
Type
educational
inspirational
When to use this quote
- classroom teaching
- parent‑child conversations
- self‑directed learning
Key Concepts
psychology
developmental theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you praise effort without creating dependency?
- What challenges can you frame as learning opportunities?
A Different Perspective
Overemphasis on praise can hinder resilience.
