Being lonely Quote by C S Lewis
“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one, lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness”
About This Quote
Loving makes one vulnerable; protecting the heart leads to selfish isolation and loss.
In simple terms: Love exposes you; guarding it isolates you.
Key Takeaway
Embrace vulnerability, not self‑protection.
Themes
love
vulnerability
self‑preservation
emotional risk
Mood
reflective
hopeful
empathetic
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- relationships
- personal growth
- parenting
- friendships
- mental health
Key Concepts
attachment theory
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What does healthy vulnerability look like?
- How to balance self‑care with openness?
A Different Perspective
Complete self‑closure can cause loneliness.
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