Charity Quote by C. S. Lewis
“Our merriment must be of that kind (and it is, in fact, the merriest kind) which exists between people who have, from the outset, taken each other seriously - no flippancy, no superiority, no presumption. And our charity must be a real and costly love, with deep feeling for the sins in spite of which we love the sinner - no mere tolerance or indulgence which parodies love as flippancy parodies merriment.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Four Loves by C. S. Lewis, 1960
True joy arises when people treat each other with sincere respect and deep, costly love, not superficial tolerance.
In simple terms: Real joy needs serious respect and costly love.
Key Takeaway
Cultivate sincere respect and deep love.
Themes
respect
love
authenticity
seriousness
Mood
warm
reflective
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- friendship
- marriage
- community building
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
theology
human relationships
ethics
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you show serious respect in daily interactions?
- What does costly love look like in practice?
A Different Perspective
Superficial kindness can mask deeper issues, making true intimacy hard.
