Being alone Quote by C. E. M. Joad
“My life is spent in perpetual alternation between two rhythms, the rhythm of attracting people for fear I may be lonely and the rhythm of trying to get rid of them because I know that I am bored.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Philosophy of Common Sense by C. E. M. Joad, 1935
The speaker describes a cyclical pattern of seeking companionship out of fear of loneliness and then rejecting it out of boredom, highlighting an inner conflict between need and desire for novelty.
In simple terms: A cycle of wanting company then pushing it away.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and break the pattern.
Themes
loneliness
boredom
relationships
self‑awareness
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
observational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendships
- social media use
- workplace dynamics
Key Concepts
existentialism
psychology
attachment theory
Questions to Reflect On
- What drives your fear of being alone?
- How can you find lasting fulfillment without constant novelty?
A Different Perspective
The pattern may stem from deeper insecurity, not just boredom.
