Brian-doyle Quote by Brian Doyle
““When young we think there will come one person who will savor and sustain us always; when we are older we know this is the dream of a child, that all hearts finally are bruised and scarred, scored and torn, repaired by time and will, patched by force of character, yet fragile and rickety forevermore, no matter how ferocious the defense and how many bricks you bring to the wall.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Heart of Life, 2015
Love and relationships are fragile, scarred, yet repaired over time through resilience and character.
In simple terms: Love is fragile but heals with effort and strength.
Cultivate resilience in relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- friendship support
- personal healing journeys
- creative writing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What practices help you repair emotional wounds?
- How do you balance vulnerability with strength?
Idealizing a single savior can lead to disappointment.