Children Quote by Bret Easton Ellis
“A child should never even think about being a "good son." A parent decides that fate for the child. The parent encourages that. Not the child himself. And the "perfect dad"? I shudder at thinking what that may be.”
About This Quote
Parental expectations can impose rigid roles, limiting a child's self‑determination and creating pressure to meet idealized standards.
In simple terms: Parents can force kids into predefined roles.
Key Takeaway
Encourage children to define their own paths.
Themes
parenting
identity
expectations
pressure
Mood
critical
empathetic
Type
psychological
philosophical
When to use this quote
- career choices
- personal development
- family discussions
Key Concepts
autonomy
self‑definition
family dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What expectations have you internalized from parents?
- How can you support a child's independent identity?
A Different Perspective
Idealized roles can cause resentment and loss of authenticity.
