Abusive-people Quote by Beverly Engel
““This is particularly true of those who "love too much" and those who tend to lose themselves in their relationships. Sometimes our love becomes distorted by our feelings of insecurity and our fear of abandonment. This is the often the case with those who become overly controlling and overly smothering of their partner. Others become emotionally abusive because of their fear of intimacy.””
About This Quote
Source Therapy guide: Managing relationship dynamics, 2021
Excessive love can become controlling, abusive, driven by insecurity and fear of abandonment.
In simple terms: Too much love can turn toxic.
Key Takeaway
Set healthy boundaries.
Themes
relationships
insecurity
abuse
Mood
cautious
empathetic
Type
psychological
self‑help
When to use this quote
- couples counseling
- personal therapy
- support groups
Key Concepts
psychology
attachment theory
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize controlling behavior?
- What steps foster secure attachment?
A Different Perspective
Changing patterns requires self‑awareness.
