Eyes wide open Quote by Benjamin Franklin
““Keep thy eyes wide open before marriage and half shut afterward.””
About This Quote
Source Speech: Advice to Young Men, 1760s
Advises vigilance before marriage, then relaxation after commitment.
In simple terms: Be alert before marriage, then relax afterward.
Key Takeaway
Stay attentive early, enjoy later.
Themes
marriage
vigilance
relaxation
Mood
reflective
cautious
Type
advice
proverbial
When to use this quote
- courtship
- married life
- relationship dynamics
Key Concepts
commitment
expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- How does vigilance change after commitment?
- Is relaxation a sign of trust?
A Different Perspective
May lead to complacency post‑marriage.
