Appear Quote by Benjamin Franklin
“If you wou'd have Guests merry with your cheer, Be so your self, or so at least appear.”
About This Quote
Source Poem: Early American Verse, 1740s
To enjoy guests, be genuine or at least appear so, fostering hospitality and goodwill.
In simple terms: Be sincere or seem sincere when hosting guests.
Key Takeaway
Practice authentic hospitality to build trust.
Themes
hospitality
authenticity
social etiquette
reputation
friendship
Mood
thoughtful
practical
warm
Type
social
ethical
When to use this quote
- dinner parties
- business meetings
- family gatherings
- community events
Key Concepts
Moral philosophy
social psychology
cultural norms
Questions to Reflect On
- When is it acceptable to feign sincerity?
- How can you cultivate genuine hospitality?
A Different Perspective
Appearances can be deceptive.
