Father Quote by Ben Carson M.D
““One reason I didn’t hold any grudges or harsh feelings toward Dad must have been that my mother seldom blamed him—at least not to us or in our hearing. I can hardly think of a time when she spoke against him.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Gifted Hands by Ben Carson, 1990
The narrator avoids resentment because his mother rarely criticized his father, fostering a neutral family dynamic.
In simple terms: Mother's silence kept peace.
Practice empathy and avoid blame.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- family gatherings
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does silence affect resentment?
- Can neutral attitudes hinder addressing issues?
Family tension may still exist despite outward calm.