Children Quote by Becker Ernest
““The only thing we accomplish by accenting the child’s constitution, his temperament, his natural dilemmas and his own synthesizing activity, is to take the parents “off the hook" of their own burden of guilt for how their children turn out. But why should they have such unreasonable guilt anyway? Didn’t Nietzsche point out that the only creatures who deserve to feel guilt (or pride) are gods, since only they have undisputed freedom of action? Perhaps we could say that if parents want to feel a bit godlike they are entitled to feel a little guilt; and if they were gods they would deserve to feel plenty.””
About This Quote
The quote argues that blaming children’s traits shifts responsibility from parents, questioning why parents should feel guilt, and suggesting only beings with true freedom (like gods) deserve guilt or pride.
In simple terms: Blaming kids lets parents avoid guilt; only truly free beings should feel guilt.
Key Takeaway
Recognize personal responsibility instead of shifting blame.
Themes
responsibility
guilt
parenting
freedom
philosophy
Mood
reflective
critical
thoughtful
Type
analytical
philosophical
ethical
When to use this quote
- parent‑child relationships
- therapy sessions
- educational workshops
- family counseling
Key Concepts
ethics
psychology
existentialism
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you hold yourself accountable without blaming others?
- Can guilt ever be constructive?
A Different Perspective
Guilt may still arise from societal expectations despite philosophical arguments.
