Self confident Quote by Barbara Ehrenreich
““In other words, it requires deliberate self-deception, including a constant effort to repress or block out unpleasant possibilities and 'negative' thoughts. The truly self-confident, or those who have in some way made their peace with the world and their destiny within it, do not need to expend effort censoring or otherwise controlling their thoughts.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Heart of the Matter, 1999
True confidence eliminates the need to constantly censor negative thoughts; acceptance brings mental ease.
In simple terms: Self‑acceptance stops mental censorship.
Key Takeaway
Practice radical acceptance of thoughts.
Themes
self‑confidence
mental health
acceptance
psychology
Mood
thoughtful
encouraging
Type
psychological
philosophical
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- journaling
- stress‑management workshops
- personal coaching
Key Concepts
cognitive therapy
mindfulness
self‑deception
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate harmful vs. natural thoughts?
- Can you accept discomfort without repression?
A Different Perspective
Some negative thoughts may be harmful if unchecked.
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