When you're more focused in getting your message across than you are worrying about how people are viewing you, that's huge. — Susan Cain Focused Copy Share Image
“Some people are more certain of everything than I am of anything. —ROBERT RUBIN, In an Uncertain World” — Susan Cain Doubt Copy Share Image
“it takes approximately ten thousand hours of Deliberate Practice to gain true expertise,” — Susan Cain Deliberate Copy Share Image
There's zero correlation between being the best talker and having the best ideas. — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
I'm insatiably curious about human nature. I feel very lucky that as a writer I get to learn so much about it… — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
We've known about the transcendent power of solitude for centuries; it's only recently that we've forgotten it. — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
Jealousy is an ugly emotion, but it tells the truth. You mostly envy those who have what you desire. — Susan Cain Desire Copy Share Image
(Finland is a famously introverted nation. Finnish joke: How can you tell if a Finn likes you? He's staring at your shoes… — Susan Cain Finland Copy Share Image
The secret to life is to put yourself in the right lighting. For some, it's a Broadway spotlight; for others, a lamplit… — Susan Cain Art Copy Share Image
Introversion - along with its cousins sensitivity, seriousness, and shyness - is now a second-class personality trait, somewhere between a disappointment and… — Susan Cain Class Copy Share Image
Or at school you might have been prodded to come “out of your shell”—that noxious expression which fails to appreciate that some… — Susan Cain Animal Copy Share Image
“In our culture, guilt is a tainted word, but it’s probably one of the building blocks of conscience. The anxiety these highly… — Susan Cain Building blocks Copy Share Image
“Purification and redemption are such recurrent themes in ritual because there is a clear and ubiquitous need for them: we all do… — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
“America had shifted from what the influential cultural historian Warren Susman called a Culture of Character to a Culture of Personality—and opened… — Susan Cain History Copy Share Image
But when the group is literally capable of changing our perceptions, and when to stand alone is to activate primitive, powerful, and… — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
The purpose of school should be to prepare kids for the rest of their lives, but too often what kids need to… — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
.. it makes sense that introverts are uniquely good at leading intiative-takers. Because of their inclination to listen to others and lack… — Susan Cain Circles Copy Share Image
“It’s about the call of his conscience. “It’s about the survival of the planet,” he says. “Nobody is going to care who… — Susan Cain Conscience Copy Share Image
“Will this job allow me to spend time on in-character activities like, for example, reading, strategizing, writing, and researching? Will I have… — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
“If you’re an introvert, find your flow by using your gifts. You have the power of persistence, the tenacity to solve complex… — Susan Cain Extrovert Copy Share Image
“Because conflict-avoidant Emily would never “bite” or even hiss unless Greg had done something truly horrible, on some level she processes his… — Susan Cain Guilt Copy Share Image
“How is it that Asians and Westerners can look at the same classroom interactions and one group will label it class participation… — Susan Cain Deep thought Copy Share Image
“Public speaking phobia has many causes, including early childhood setbacks, that have to do with our unique personal histories, not inborn temperament.… — Susan Cain Children Copy Share Image
“A species in which everyone was General Patton would not succeed, any more than would a race in which everyone was Vincent… — Susan Cain Cherry blossom Copy Share Image
“Proust called these moments of unity between writer and reader “that fruitful miracle of a communication in the midst of solitude.” — Susan Cain Books Copy Share Image
“By 1950, the slogan of he Mid-Century White House Conference on Children and Youth was "A healthy personality for every child.” — Susan Cain Children Copy Share Image
Do you really believe in what you said or wrote – in the thing that’s bringing criticism? And if I do believe… — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
“Don't think of introversion as something that needs to be cured...Spend your free the way you like, not the way you think… — Susan Cain Inspirational Copy Share Image
Introverts need to trust their gut and share their ideas as powerfully as they can. — Susan Cain Guts Copy Share Image
“How can you tell if a Finn likes you? He's staring at your shoes instead of his own.” — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
“People who tend to [suppress their negative emotions] regularly,” concludes Grob, “might start to see the world in a more negative light.” — Susan Cain Negative emotions Copy Share Image
I prefer listening to talking, reading to socializing ... I like to think before I speak (softly). — Susan Cain Communication Copy Share Image
We don't need giant personalities to transform companies. We need leaders who build not their own egos but the institutions they run. — Susan Cain Business Copy Share Image
“People who pass us on the street can’t know that we’re clever and charming unless we look it.” — Susan Cain Copy Share Image
“We’re told that to be great is to be bold, to be happy is to be sociable.” — Susan Cain Courage Copy Share Image
It's as if they have thinner boundaries separating them from other people's emotions and from the tragedies and cruelties of the world. — Susan Cain Boundaries Copy Share Image
We have a two-tier class system when it comes to personality style. To devalue introversion is a waste of talent, energy and… — Susan Cain Class Copy Share Image
“The key to flow is to pursue an activity for its own sake, not for the rewards it brings.” — Susan Cain Flow Copy Share Image
There is no one more courageous than the person who speaks with the courage of his convictions. — Susan Cain Conviction Copy Share Image
“The next generation of quiet kids can and should be raised to know their own strengths.” — Susan Cain Child Copy Share Image