“El amor no guarda una puntuación de errores. El amor no revive los fracasos pasados. Ninguno de nosotros es perfecto.” — Gary Chapman Amor Copy Share Image
Love doesn't keep a score of wrongs. Love doesn't bring up past failures. (1 Cor 13:5) — Gary Chapman Failure Copy Share Image
“Verbal compliments, or words of appreciation, are powerful communicators of love.” — Gary Chapman Compliments Copy Share Image
Love is the most powerful weapon in the world for good. I really believe that. — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
This is a huge thing if you are going to have a positive impact on your spouse. You have to not only… — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
Our spouse will usually interpret our message based on our tone of voice, not the words we use. — Gary Chapman Marriage Copy Share Image
The fastest way to have a loving, supportive, understanding spouse is to become a loving, supportive, understanding spouse. — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
Many couples have never learned the tremendous power of verbally affirming each other. — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
Lack of love from parents often motivates their children to go searching for love in other relationships. This search is often misguided… — Gary Chapman Children Copy Share Image
Over the long haul, many of those people [in a difficult marriage] will begin to reciprocate, because you are meeting a basic… — Gary Chapman Basic needs Copy Share Image
Others who openly discuss matters of spirituality often ignore the warning signs. They are so in love with each other, enjoy being… — Gary Chapman Differences Copy Share Image
I hope the reader's sense that I am deeply empathetic with the pain of being in a desperate marriage, but I also… — Gary Chapman Abusers Copy Share Image
“Third, one who is "in love" is not genuinely interested in fostering the personal growth of the other person. "If we have… — Gary Chapman Fall in love Copy Share Image
“Experiente indragostirii"[...]Are durata scurta (de obicei sub doi ani)si pare sa serveasca omenirii intr-un mod similar strigatului de imperechere al gastelor din… — Gary Chapman Amor Copy Share Image
This book [Desperate Marriages ] is really a book on how to be a positive change agent in a very, very difficult… — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
I thought the whole thing was you fall in love with somebody, and it's so wonderful, and it's so euphoric, and it's… — Gary Chapman Euphoria Copy Share Image
“Love doesn’t keep a score of wrongs. Love doesn’t bring up past failures. None of us is perfect. In marriage we do… — Gary Chapman Failure Copy Share Image
Good marriages are built upon a combination of emotional love and a common commitment to a core of beliefs about what is… — Gary Chapman Belief Copy Share Image
“What would be workable for you?” is a good place to begin. Now we are focusing on resolution rather than differences. Two… — Gary Chapman Eye opening Copy Share Image
“Andre didn’t make that connection at first. He worked hard—at the wrong tasks. And he failed to make a dent in his… — Gary Chapman Acts of service Copy Share Image
The decision to get married will impact one's life more deeply than almost any decision in life. Yet people continue to rush… — Gary Chapman Attention Copy Share Image
If I walk in the house, and I greet my wife, and I give her a hug, kiss her on the cheek,… — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
Encouragement requires empathy and seeing the world from your spouse's perspective. We must first learn what is important to our spouse. Only… — Gary Chapman Ability Copy Share Image
Marriages are always moving from one season to another. Sometimes we find ourselves in winter--discouraged, detached, and dissatisfied; other times we experience… — Gary Chapman Always moving Copy Share Image
“Learning the love language of acts of service will require some of us to reexamine our stereotypes of the roles of husbands… — Gary Chapman Acts of service Copy Share Image
I cannot change others, but I can influence others... we can't change people, but we can and we do influence people, and… — Gary Chapman Can't change Copy Share Image
“People who are "in love" lose interest in other pursuits. That is why we call it "obsession.” — Gary Chapman Love Copy Share Image
“Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a commitment. It is a choice to show mercy, not to hold the offense up… — Gary Chapman Commitment Copy Share Image
Most people spend far more time in preparation for their vocation than they do in preparation for marriage. — Gary Chapman Marriage Copy Share Image
“Work willingly at whatever you do, as though you were working for the Lord rather than for people. COLOSSIANS 3:23” — Gary Chapman Colossians Copy Share Image
“A relationship calls for sympathetic listening with a view to understanding the other person’s thoughts, feelings, and desires.” — Gary Chapman Communication Copy Share Image
The desire for romantic love in marriage is deeply rooted in our psychological makeup. — Gary Chapman Desire Copy Share Image
“Remember, emotions themselves are neither good nor bad. They are simply our psychological responses to the events of life.” — Gary Chapman Emotions Copy Share Image
The human race could not go on without reproduction, and marriage creates the most secure environment in which to raise children. — Gary Chapman Children Copy Share Image
“Most of us have more potential than we will ever develop. What holds us back is often courage.” — Gary Chapman Courage Copy Share Image
We can't determine our emotions, but we can choose our attitudes and actions. — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
“Eventually, however, we all descend from the clouds and plant our feet on earth again. Our eyes are opened, and we see… — Gary Chapman Nature Copy Share Image
We fail to reckon with the reality of human nature. By nature,we are egocentric. Our world revolves around us. None of us… — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
“Discipline is not a negative word. It comes from the Greek word "to train.” — Gary Chapman Children Copy Share Image
The one who chooses to love will find appropriate ways to express that decision everyday. — Gary Chapman Copy Share Image
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![“This book [Desperate Marriages ] is really a book on how to be a positive change agent in a very, very difficult marriage. I am not promising that all individuals will be responsive to the approach I take, but I do believe that many marriages could be saved... could be healed. That is my hope.” quote by Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/632/gary-chapman-1325_agents_this-book-desperate-marriages-is-really_2000967.png)
