Enough Quote by Augustus William Hare
“Some persons take reproof good-humoredly enough, unless you are so unlucky as to hit a sore place. Then they wince and writhe, and start up and knock you down for your impertinence, or wish you good morning.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Essays and Sketches, 1845
People may accept criticism lightly until it hits a personal wound, then they react defensively and attack the critic.
In simple terms: Criticism is tolerated until it feels personal, then it provokes retaliation.
Key Takeaway
Be mindful of tone and timing when giving feedback.
Themes
criticism
defensiveness
communication
Mood
cautious
reflective
Type
advice
observational
When to use this quote
- workplace reviews
- personal relationships
- public debates
- online comments
Key Concepts
psychology
social dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you give feedback without triggering defensiveness?
- What signals indicate someone is feeling attacked?
A Different Perspective
Not all criticism is malicious; context matters.
