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“We have to consciously study how to be tender with each other until it becomes a habit because what was native has been stolen from us, the love of Black women for each other.” quote by Audre Lorde
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“We have to consciously study how to be tender with each other until it becomes a habit because what was native has been stolen from us, the love of Black women for each other.”

Audre Lorde

About This Quote

Source Essay: Sister Outsider, 1984

We must deliberately practice tenderness toward one another until it becomes habitual, because the natural love among Black women has been suppressed.

In simple terms: Practice tender care until it feels natural.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate daily kindness.

Themes

community racial solidarity self‑care

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

inspirational social

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • family gatherings
  • activist circles
  • mental‑health support

Key Concepts

intersectionality healing cultural loss

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we model tenderness in daily interactions?
  • What societal forces have eroded natural affection?
A Different Perspective

Changing deep habits takes time and collective effort.

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