Black Quote by Audre Lorde
“We have to consciously study how to be tender with each other until it becomes a habit because what was native has been stolen from us, the love of Black women for each other.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Sister Outsider, 1984
We must deliberately practice tenderness toward one another until it becomes habitual, because the natural love among Black women has been suppressed.
In simple terms: Practice tender care until it feels natural.
Cultivate daily kindness.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- friendships
- family gatherings
- activist circles
- mental‑health support
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we model tenderness in daily interactions?
- What societal forces have eroded natural affection?
Changing deep habits takes time and collective effort.