Speaking Quote by Audre Lorde
““Once you start to speak, people will yell at you. They will interrupt you, put you down and suggest it’s personal. And the world won’t end. And the speaking will get easier and easier. And you will find you have fallen in love with your own vision, which you may never have realized you had. And you will lose some friends and lovers, and realize you don’t miss them. And new ones will find you and cherish you. And you will still flirt and paint your nails, dress up and party, because, as I think Emma Goldman said, “If I can’t dance, I don’t want to be part of your revolution.” And at last you’ll know with surpassing certainty that only one thing is more frightening than speaking your truth. And that is not speaking.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Uses of Anger,” 1981
Speaking truth invites resistance but also personal growth, connection, and empowerment despite loss.
In simple terms: Speaking truth brings challenges and rewards.
Key Takeaway
Speak your truth despite fear.
Themes
courage
self‑expression
community
Mood
determined
hopeful
Type
inspirational
motivational
When to use this quote
- public speaking
- activism
- friendship
- self‑care
- artistic work
Key Concepts
personal empowerment
social change
Questions to Reflect On
- What fears hold you back from speaking?
- How can you nurture supportive relationships?
A Different Perspective
Not everyone will support you; speaking can alienate.
