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Accomplishment Quote by Arlie Russell Hochschild

“If in the earlier part of the century, middle-class children suffered from overattentive mothers, from being "mother's only accomplishment," today's children may suffer from an underestimation of their needs. Our idea of what a child needs in each case reflects what parents need. The child's needs…” quote by Arlie Russell Hochschild
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“If in the earlier part of the century, middle-class children suffered from overattentive mothers, from being "mother's only accomplishment," today's children may suffer from an underestimation of their needs. Our idea of what a child needs in each case reflects what parents need. The child's needs are thus a cultural football in an economic and marital game.”

Arlie Russell Hochschild

About This Quote

Source Book: The Managed Heart, 1983

Children’s needs are shaped by parental expectations, turning child‑rearing into a cultural and economic negotiation.

In simple terms: Parental expectations shape child needs.

Key Takeaway

Recognize cultural bias in parenting.

Themes

family dynamics culture economics

Mood

analytical empathetic

Type

sociological critical

When to use this quote

  • policy making
  • educational programs
  • family counseling

Key Concepts

social expectations parental roles

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do cultural norms affect parenting?
  • What policies support diverse child needs?
A Different Perspective

Economic pressures may overlook individual child needs.

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