Accomplishment Quote by Arlie Russell Hochschild
“If in the earlier part of the century, middle-class children suffered from overattentive mothers, from being "mother's only accomplishment," today's children may suffer from an underestimation of their needs. Our idea of what a child needs in each case reflects what parents need. The child's needs are thus a cultural football in an economic and marital game.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Managed Heart, 1983
Children’s needs are shaped by parental expectations, turning child‑rearing into a cultural and economic negotiation.
In simple terms: Parental expectations shape child needs.
Recognize cultural bias in parenting.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- policy making
- educational programs
- family counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do cultural norms affect parenting?
- What policies support diverse child needs?
Economic pressures may overlook individual child needs.