Chance Quote by Anzia Yezierska
“I've borne the shame of mother while you bought her off with a present and a treat here and there. God knows how hard I tried to civilize her so as not to have to blush with shame when I take her anywhere. I dressed her in the most stylish Paris models, but Delancey Street sticks out from every inch of her. Whenever she opens her mouth, I'm done for. You fellows had your chance to rise in the world because a man is free to go up as high as he can reach up to; but I, with all my style and pep, can't get a man my equal because a girl is always judged by her mother.”
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Gift of the Magi” (inspired) by Anzia Yezierska, 1910
A mother feels judged and ashamed despite attempts to elevate her child's status, highlighting societal pressures on women and mothers.
In simple terms: Mother struggles with social judgment despite efforts.
Key Takeaway
Seek self‑acceptance beyond external validation.
Themes
family
social pressure
identity
gender roles
Mood
empathetic
somber
Type
narrative
emotional
When to use this quote
- parenting
- social gatherings
- fashion choices
Key Concepts
shame
class anxiety
maternal expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- How does societal judgment affect self‑worth?
- What can empower mothers facing stigma?
A Different Perspective
External validation cannot erase internal insecurities.
