““We wish each other “sweet dreams,” when really, we should wish each other “healing dreams.” To advance the soul, mend the heart, and empty yourself of harmful emotions, you don’t want every dream to be perfect and tranquil and flowery. You don’t want your dream life to be an all- out wonderland. You want your dreams to have some hardship in them, because you want the good stuff to be happening when you’re awake.””