Adult life Quote by Anthony Storr
“Avoidance behavior is a response designed to protect the infant from behavioral disorganization. If we transfer this concept to adult life, we can see that an avoidant infant might very well develop into a person whose principal need was to find some kind of meaning and order in life which was not entirely, or even chiefly, dependent upon interpersonal relationships”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Psychology of the Adult, 1995
Early avoidance protects infants; similar patterns in adults can manifest as a quest for meaning independent of relationships.
In simple terms: Avoidance in childhood can shape adult meaning‑seeking.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and address avoidance patterns.
Themes
psychology
development
meaning‑seeking
Mood
analytical
thoughtful
Type
theoretical
philosophical
When to use this quote
- counseling sessions
- career planning
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
attachment theory
existential psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- How does avoidance affect your relationships?
- Can meaning be found without social ties?
A Different Perspective
Meaning‑seeking may still need relational support.
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