““When you accept yourself as you are, you will be less prone to jealousy, worry, blame, guilt, regret, lies, insults, and even compliments.Thus, you will appear more certain (you will be more confident) For example, hearing compliments or insults from anybody else will not make any difference if you know yourself and trust your own opinion the most. So when you notice someone who reacts strongly to other people's remarks, even compliments, they are nonconsciously admitting their lack of confidence and self-esteem””