Accepting Quote by Anonymous
“Sadness, seriousness are parts of a psychologically sick man - they need causes. So when you are feeling happy, don't start asking, "Why am I happy?" When you are feeling sad ask why you are sad. But strangely, it has become conventional to our minds that when we are sad we accept it as if it is our nature. And when we are joyous even we are surprised; deep inside we even start worrying: "What is happening to me?"”
About This Quote
Understanding emotions requires asking why we feel each state, not just the positive ones.
In simple terms: Ask why you feel both joy and sadness.
Question the cause of every emotion.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- daily journaling
- stressful events
- celebrations
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers your sadness?
- How could questioning joy change your experience?
People often avoid probing negative emotions.