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“[S]omething inside us, the feeling of resentment, the feeling that wants to get one's own back, must be simply killed. I do not mean that anyone can decide this moment that he will never feel it anymore. That is not how things happen. I mean that every time it bobs its head up, day after day, year…” quote by Anonymous
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“[S]omething inside us, the feeling of resentment, the feeling that wants to get one's own back, must be simply killed. I do not mean that anyone can decide this moment that he will never feel it anymore. That is not how things happen. I mean that every time it bobs its head up, day after day, year after year, all our lives long, we must hit it on the head. It is hard work, but the attempt is not impossible.”

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Resentment must be constantly confronted and suppressed; it cannot be eliminated instantly.

In simple terms: Resentment needs ongoing effort to control.

Key Takeaway

Address resentment promptly and repeatedly.

Themes

psychology anger self‑control conflict

Mood

introspective determined

Type

motivational psychological

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • workplace conflicts
  • therapy sessions
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

Emotional regulation personal growth habit formation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What triggers your resentment?
  • What strategies help you release it constructively?
A Different Perspective

Constant suppression may cause internal tension; healthier coping may be needed.

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