Acting Quote by Anonymous
“Not my idea of God, but God. Not my idea of H., but H. Yes, and also not my idea of my neighbour, but my neighbour. For don't we often make this mistake as regards people who are still alive -- who are with us in the same room? Talking and acting not to the man himself but to the picture -- almost the précis -- we've made of him in our own minds? And he has to depart from it pretty widely before we even notice the fact.”
About This Quote
A reflection on how we often imagine people, especially those alive, rather than seeing them directly, leading to misunderstandings.
In simple terms: We misjudge people by mental pictures instead of reality.
Observe people without preconceived notions.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- team meetings
- family dinners
- new acquaintances
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you see people as they are?
- What steps can you take to reduce assumptions?
Changing mental images takes effort and time.