“My ex-gf said I was boring or too safe when we broke up. But before that she liked or loved me for it. What I learned from this is its not your fault, your gf is just not interested in you anymore. Or she started to compare you to other guys that flirt with her, making you seem more boring than you usually are. People who are in love, tend to blur out the negatives of a person but when you fall out of love, you will start seeing it all.”