Attachment Quote by Anonymous
““... in children, security or insecurity of attachment is not a characteristic of the individual, but rather of a relationship: it is not uncommon for a child to be securely attached with one parent, and disorganized (or insecurely attached) with the other (Main, 1995).””
About This Quote
Source Academic: Attachment Theory, Main 1995
Attachment security varies by caregiver, not inherent to the child, highlighting relational dynamics.
In simple terms: Children’s security depends on each relationship.
Key Takeaway
Focus on building secure bonds with each caregiver.
Themes
attachment
relationships
development
psychology
Mood
empathetic
analytical
Type
psychological
educational
When to use this quote
- parent‑child interactions
- therapy
- education
- family counseling
Key Concepts
attachment theory
relational dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you support a child’s multiple relationships?
- What signs indicate insecure attachment?
A Different Perspective
Secure attachment with one caregiver doesn’t guarantee overall security.
