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“Call to mind a person you've lost that you will miss to the end of your days,and then imagine happening upon that person out in public. . . . You wouldn't question your sanity, because you couldn't bear to think this wasn't real. And you certainly wouldn't demand explanations, or alert anybody…” quote by Anne Tyler
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““Call to mind a person you've lost that you will miss to the end of your days,and then imagine happening upon that person out in public. . . . You wouldn't question your sanity, because you couldn't bear to think this wasn't real. And you certainly wouldn't demand explanations, or alert anybody nearby, or reach out to touch this person, not even if you'd been feeling that one touch was worth giving everything up for. You would hold your breath. You would keep as still as possible. You would will your loved one not to go away again.””

Anne Tyler

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Accidental Tourist, 1985

Imagining a lost loved one’s return evokes intense longing, disbelief, and a desire to cling to that moment.

In simple terms: Missing someone deeply feels unreal and overwhelming.

Key Takeaway

Hold onto cherished memories.

Themes

loss longing hope

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary emotional

When to use this quote

  • bereavement
  • unexpected reunions
  • memorial events
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

grief attachment psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can longing help or hinder healing?
  • What does this reveal about attachment?
A Different Perspective

Such fantasies can hinder healing.

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