Promise Quote by Anne Tyler
““All those things we used to promise ourselves we'd never, ever do when we grew up. Like we promised we wouldn't mince when we walk barefoot. We promised we wouldn't lie out on the beach tanning instead of swimming, or swimming with our chins high so we wouldn't wet our hairdos. We promised we wouldn't wash the dishes right after supper because that would take us away from our husbands; remember that? How long since you saved the dishes till morning so you could be with Max? How long since Max even noticed that you didn't?””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Accidental Tourist by Anne Tyler, 1985
We often break our youthful promises, making excuses to avoid responsibilities, especially in relationships.
In simple terms: We make excuses and avoid duties over time.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and own your avoidance.
Themes
responsibility
relationships
self‑deception
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
advice
personal
When to use this quote
- marriage
- household chores
- personal accountability
Key Concepts
excuse‑making
self‑justification
Questions to Reflect On
- What promise have you broken repeatedly?
- How do excuses affect your relationships?
A Different Perspective
Excuses can become habitual, eroding trust.
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