Big family Quote by Anne Morrow Lindbergh
““It is an oyster, with small shells clinging to its humped back. Sprawling and uneven, it has the irregularity of something growing. It looks rather like the house of a big family, pushing out one addition after another to hold its teeming life - here a sleeping porch for the children, and there a veranda for the play-pen; here a garage for the extra car and there a shed for the bicycles. It amuses me because it seems so much like my life at the moment, like most women's lives in the middle years of marriage. It is untidy, spread out in all directions, heavily encrusted with accumulations…””
About This Quote
The passage likens a chaotic, expanding home to a life in mid‑marriage, emphasizing accumulation, untidiness, and constant growth.
In simple terms: Life in middle marriage feels messy and ever‑expanding.
Key Takeaway
Embrace and organize life’s complexities.
Themes
family
marriage
growth
chaos
midlife
Mood
contemplative
nostalgic
Type
personal
metaphorical
When to use this quote
- home organization
- family counseling
- midlife coaching
- personal journaling
- creative writing
Key Concepts
psychology
sociology
home dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What aspects of your life feel like an untidy house?
- How can you create harmony within growth?
A Different Perspective
The metaphor may overlook intentional order amidst chaos.
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