Brain Quote by Anne Lamott
“I've always thought I could use my brain and my heart to jockey everyone around to the good. But life is not jockeyable. When you try, you make people infinitely crazier than they already were, including or especially yourself.”
About This Quote
Source Book: *Traveling Mercies*, 1999
Attempts to influence others often backfire, increasing chaos for everyone.
In simple terms: Trying to control others creates more chaos.
Practice empathy and let go of control.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family relationships
- leadership
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you tried to control a situation?
- What was the result?
Control is limited; outcomes can be unpredictable.