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Grief Quote by Anne Lamott

“Grief, as I read somewhere once, is a lazy Susan. One day it is heavy and underwater, and the next day it spins and stops at loud and rageful, and the next day at wounded keening, and the next day numbness, silence.” quote by Anne Lamott
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“Grief, as I read somewhere once, is a lazy Susan. One day it is heavy and underwater, and the next day it spins and stops at loud and rageful, and the next day at wounded keening, and the next day numbness, silence.”

Anne Lamott

About This Quote

Source Essay: “Grief as a Lazy Susan” by Anne Lamott, 2005

Grief shifts unpredictably through heavy sorrow, anger, wailing, and numbness, reflecting its cyclical, ever‑changing nature.

In simple terms: Grief cycles through different intense emotions.

Key Takeaway

Accept grief’s fluidity and allow yourself to feel each stage.

Themes

grief emotional cycles acceptance

Mood

somber reflective

Type

therapeutic inspirational

When to use this quote

  • counseling sessions
  • journaling
  • support groups
  • mindful breathing
  • art therapy

Key Concepts

psychology trauma healing

Questions to Reflect On

  • What emotion are you currently experiencing?
  • How can you honor each phase without judgment?
A Different Perspective

Focusing on one stage may cause resistance to other feelings.

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