Change Quote by Ann Voskamp
““What matters most is not if our love makes other people change, but that in loving, we change. What matters is that in the sacrificing to love someone, we become more like Someone. Regardless of anything or anyone else changing, the success of loving is in how we change because we kept on loving.””
About This Quote
Source Book: A Year with God, Ann Voskamp, 2010
Love’s true success is measured by how it transforms us, not by how it changes others.
In simple terms: Love changes us more than it changes others.
Key Takeaway
Focus on personal growth through love.
Themes
love
personal transformation
self‑improvement
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
inspirational
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage
- friendship
- parenting
- volunteering
- counseling
Key Concepts
spiritual growth
self‑actualization
empathy
Questions to Reflect On
- How has love reshaped your character?
- What habits help you stay loving despite others’ resistance?
A Different Perspective
If we expect others to change, we may become frustrated and disengaged.
