Conflict Quote by Andy Dunn
“A protective self-narrative during conflict and duress sometimes obscures us from seeing the worst in ourselves. When the self-sustaining haze lifts after that conflict has subsided, we may recognize in ourselves the flaws the other saw in us at the time that we didn't have the emotional bandwidth to examine in the moment.”
About This Quote
Self‑narratives in stress can blind us to our flaws; after calm, we may see what others saw.
In simple terms: Stress makes us ignore our faults; later we notice them.
Key Takeaway
Reflect on self‑perception after conflict.
Themes
psychology
conflict
self‑awareness
Mood
introspective
analytical
Type
philosophical
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapy
- team debriefs
- personal journaling
- leadership reviews
Key Concepts
cognitive bias
emotional bandwidth
self‑reflection
Questions to Reflect On
- What hidden flaws emerge after stress?
- How can we improve self‑awareness during conflict?
A Different Perspective
Self‑narratives can be defensive rather than truthful.
