Surprise Quote by André Aciman
““What did you write on the back of the postcard?” “It was going to be a surprise.” “I’m too old for surprises. Besides, surprises always come with a sharp edge that is meant to hurt. I don’t want to be hurt—not by you. Tell me.” “Just two words.” “Let me guess: If not later, when? ” “Two words, I said. Besides, that would be cruel.” I thought for a while. “I give up.” “ Cor cordium , heart of hearts, I’ve never said anything truer in my life to anyone.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Call Me by Your Name, André Aciman, 2007
The dialogue explores the tension between desire for intimacy and fear of emotional pain, suggesting that honesty can be both a risk and a relief.
In simple terms: Honesty can be painful but freeing.
Key Takeaway
Speak truthfully, even if it hurts.
Themes
intimacy
vulnerability
communication
Mood
reflective
intimate
Type
literary
dialogue
When to use this quote
- confessing love
- asking for honesty
- handling emotional risk
Key Concepts
psychology
human connection
fear of rejection
Questions to Reflect On
- Can you be honest without fearing hurt?
- What does “sharp edge” symbolize in relationships?
A Different Perspective
Honesty may not always protect you from pain.
