Attraction Quote by Anais Nin
“When I hear of people who weary of each other, I believe it is because they have sought virtues in themselves alone, attractions of physical beauty. Have they based their love on each other's thoughts? Who can weary of thoughts which change every day?”
About This Quote
Source Book: House of Incest, 1936
People tire of relationships when they focus only on outward traits; true connection requires valuing each other's thoughts, which are ever‑changing.
In simple terms: Love based on thoughts endures better than on looks.
Key Takeaway
Value intellectual connection over appearance.
Themes
love
intimacy
self‑growth
impermanence
Mood
introspective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
romantic
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- personal reflection
- creative writing exercises
Key Concepts
philosophy of love
psychology of attraction
mindfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you nurture mental intimacy in relationships?
- What habits help you appreciate changing thoughts?
A Different Perspective
Physical attraction still matters for many; may idealize emotional depth.
