Confidence Quote by Anaïs Nin
““Her lack of confidence in life, in realization, in the fulfillment of her desires, in the outcome of a dream, in the possibility of reality corresponding to her fantasy, speeded her bicycle with the incredible speed of anxiety, a speed beyond the human body, beyond human endurance. She arrived before him. Her fear was justified! She could not measure what the anxiety had done to her speed, the acceleration which had broken the equality of rhythm. She arrived as she had feared, at a desolate spot on the road, and the boy had become this invisible image which taunts the dreamer, a mirage that could not be made real. It had become reality eluding the dreamer, the wish unfulfilled. The boy may have arrived later. He may have fallen asleep and not come at all. He may have had a tire puncture. Nothing mattered. Nothing could prevent her from feeling that she was not Juliet waiting on the balcony, but Romeo who had to leap across space to join her. She had leaped, she had acted Romeo, and when woman leaped she leaped into a void.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Henry and June by Anaïs Nin, 1971
Anxiety can drive us to act hastily, causing us to miss the natural timing and balance of life, leading to frustration and emptiness.
In simple terms: Anxiety makes us rush and miss the right moment.
Recognize anxiety, pause, and align actions with timing.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- career decisions
- creative projects
- personal growth
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers your anxiety to act?
- How can you create space for natural timing?
Anxiety may be useful for motivation but can also distort perception and lead to poor decisions.