Addresses Quote by Anais Nin
“Again I take a taxi to Clichy address, but feel that I do not want to go on loving Henry more actively than he loves me (having realized that nobody will ever love me in that overabundant, overexpressive, overthoughtful, overhuman way I love people), and so I will wait for him. So I ask taxi driver to drop me at the Galeries Lafayette, where I begin to look for a new hat and to shop for Christmas. Pride? I don't know. A kind of wise retreat. I need people too much. So I bury my gigantic defect, my overflow of love, under trivialities, like a child. I amuse myself with a new hat.”
About This Quote
Source Diary entry, 1930s, unpublished
Expresses feeling overwhelmed by love, choosing distraction and modest pursuits to manage emotional intensity.
In simple terms: She redirects excess love into small, manageable actions.
Key Takeaway
Use simple tasks to balance intense emotions.
Themes
love
self‑care
boundaries
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
advice
personal narrative
When to use this quote
- shopping
- writing
- mindful walking
Key Concepts
emotional regulation
personal growth
creative coping
Questions to Reflect On
- What small habit helps you regain balance?
- How do you honor love without losing self?
A Different Perspective
May suppress genuine feelings instead of addressing them.
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