Affection Quote by Amy Carmichael
“If I am afraid to speak the truth lest I lose affection, or lest the one concerned should say, "You do not understand", or because I fear to lose my reputation for kindness; if I put my own good name before the other's highest good, then I know nothing of Calvary love.”
About This Quote
Source Letter: Personal correspondence, 1912, Amy Carmichael
Prioritizing personal reputation over selfless love leads to a shallow understanding of true sacrifice and compassion.
In simple terms: Putting self‑interest before others shows you don’t truly love.
Key Takeaway
Put others’ highest good before your own reputation.
Themes
love
self‑sacrifice
integrity
spirituality
humility
Mood
thoughtful
serious
inspirational
Type
ethical
spiritual
motivational
When to use this quote
- missionary work
- family conflict
- ethical dilemmas
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
true love
self‑lessness
reputation risk
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you value your reputation over honest love?
- How can you practice self‑less love without fear?
A Different Perspective
The fear of losing affection may cause you to hide truth, undermining genuine love.
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