Child Quote by Amber Dermont
““For some parents, having children meant full absolution from any future mistakes. My father wouldn't permit himself to be wrong. He shifted the blame of misplaced scissors, rising interest rates, and iceless ice cube trays all unto Riegel and me.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Secret Lives of Church Ladies by Deesha Philyaw, 2020
Parents may view children as absolution for their own errors, shifting blame onto them.
In simple terms: Parents sometimes see kids as a way to avoid responsibility.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and own personal mistakes.
Themes
family
responsibility
blame
parenting
Mood
reflective
serious
empathetic
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- parent‑child relationships
- self‑reflection
- accountability
- teaching children responsibility
Key Concepts
psychology
deflection
family dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you take responsibility for your actions?
- What impact does blame shifting have on family bonds?
A Different Perspective
Blame shifting can damage trust and emotional health.
