Appearing Quote by Alice Miller
“It is unlikely that someone could proclaim "truths" that are counter to physical laws for very long (for example, that it is healthy for children to run around in bathing suits in winter and in fur coats in summer) without appearing ridiculous. But it is perfectly normal to speak of the necessity of striking and humiliating children and robbing them of their autonomy, at the same time using such high-sounding words as chastising, upbringing, and guiding onto the right path.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Drama of the Gifted Child, 1979
The statement argues that while absurd claims are quickly dismissed, harmful practices toward children are often normalized using euphemistic language, exposing societal double standards.
In simple terms: Society tolerates harmful child treatment under polite terms.
Key Takeaway
Question the language used to justify harm.
Themes
childhood
ethics
language
Mood
critical
concerned
Type
ethical
social
When to use this quote
- parenting advice
- education policy
- media critique
Key Concepts
euphemism
double standards
power dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What language disguises harmful actions?
- How can we expose and challenge these double standards?
A Different Perspective
Normalization of abuse can be hidden by soft wording.
