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Pretend Quote by Alice Hoffman

“I'll pretend to be who they want me to be.' He grinned then, and she saw his youth. 'But it won't work. In the end I'll have to disappoint someone. Either them, or myself.” quote by Alice Hoffman
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““I'll pretend to be who they want me to be.' He grinned then, and she saw his youth. 'But it won't work. In the end I'll have to disappoint someone. Either them, or myself.””

Alice Hoffman

About This Quote

A person pretends to meet others' expectations but knows it will ultimately lead to disappointment.

In simple terms: Pretending to please others leads to inevitable letdown.

Key Takeaway

Accept authentic expectations.

Themes

identity expectations disappointment

Mood

reflective melancholy

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • career choices
  • family dynamics

Key Concepts

self‑deception authenticity

Questions to Reflect On

  • What expectations are you sacrificing?
  • How can you align actions with true self?
A Different Perspective

If you keep pretending, you may lose yourself.

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