Attitude Quote by Alfred Adler
“It is one of the most effective attitudes of the neurotic to measure thumbs down, so to speak, a real person by an ideal, since in doing so he can depreciate him as much as he wishes.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Understanding Human Nature, 1927
Neurotic comparison to ideals devalues real people, reinforcing insecurity
In simple terms: Measuring others against perfection harms relationships
Key Takeaway
Avoid idealizing others; value authentic humanity
Themes
comparison
neuroticism
self‑esteem
Mood
analytical
cautious
Type
psychological
philosophical
When to use this quote
- therapy
- mentorship
- team leadership
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
psychology
social perception
idealism
Questions to Reflect On
- When does comparison become constructive?
- How to appreciate real people without idealizing?
A Different Perspective
Ideal standards can motivate growth if balanced
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