Hurt feelings Quote by Alexandra Ayala
“It hurts when I'm out you want to talk but when youre out you give me excuse you out chilling with whoever. Hate the dots you put on and when I see you go on for a long time not texting me makes me think you cheating on me. If you just chilling then why take awhile to text? Everything we went through makes me think your love aint the same anymore or you just playing me back. I dont say anything 2 prevent problems ill jus keep it that way till I find out myself and confront you about it. You guys can do all the stuff you guys wana do but when a gurl does it is game over we the bad ones we the hoe thats not fair. I bring down myself of what you said to me and what you think I am just hate having these feelings. Makes me feel worthless.”
About This Quote
Source Personal journal entry, 2023
The writer feels neglected and insecure in a relationship, interpreting delayed communication as possible cheating, leading to low self‑esteem.
In simple terms: Feeling ignored makes the writer doubt love and feel worthless.
Key Takeaway
Communicate openly about expectations.
Themes
insecurity
relationship
communication
trust
self‑esteem
Mood
anxious
vulnerable
Type
personal
reflective
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- conflict resolution
- self‑care
- boundary setting
Key Concepts
attachment theory
emotional regulation
relationship dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What evidence supports your suspicion?
- How can you express your needs without blame?
A Different Perspective
Assuming intent without evidence can damage relationships.
