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Attachment Quote by Albert Ellis

“Unless, of course, you insist on identifying yourself with the people and things you love; and thereby seriously disturb yourself.” quote by Albert Ellis
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“Unless, of course, you insist on identifying yourself with the people and things you love; and thereby seriously disturb yourself.”

Albert Ellis

About This Quote

Identifying oneself solely with loved people or things can cause deep personal disturbance.

In simple terms: Self‑identity tied to possessions creates inner conflict.

Key Takeaway

Seek identity beyond external attachments.

Themes

identity attachment psychology

Mood

introspective cautious

Type

psychological philosophical

When to use this quote

  • relationships
  • materialism
  • self‑esteem

Key Concepts

existentialism self‑concept

Questions to Reflect On

  • What aspects of yourself are independent of what you love?
  • How can you maintain balance when attachments are strong?
A Different Perspective

Over‑identification can lead to emotional instability.

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