Acceptance Quote by Albert Ellis
“Attempts to help humans eliminate all self-ratings and views self-esteem as a self-defeating concept that encourages them to make conditional evaluations of self. Instead, it teaches people unconditional self-acceptance.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Rational Emotive Therapy by Albert Ellis, 1962
Self-esteem is framed as a conditional, self‑judgmental metric; the approach promotes unconditional self‑acceptance instead.
In simple terms: Self‑esteem is a harmful self‑rating; accept yourself unconditionally.
Adopt unconditional self‑acceptance.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- personal development workshops
- self‑help reading
- coaching
- educational curricula
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you practice self‑acceptance without ignoring personal improvement?
- What situations trigger conditional self‑judgment?
Unconditional acceptance may overlook constructive self‑critique needed for growth.