Cowardice Quote by Alan Hollinghurst
““ 'Can't really say?' Nick said, and heard, as he sometimes did, his own father's note of evasive sympathy. It was how his family sidled round its various crises; nothing was named, and you never knew for sure if the tone was subtly comprehensive, or just a form of cowardice.””
About This Quote
Family members often avoid naming crises, using vague sympathy that can mask cowardice.
In simple terms: Families sometimes dodge direct discussion of problems, hiding true feelings.
Key Takeaway
Address issues directly rather than using evasive sympathy.
Themes
family dynamics
communication
avoidance
Mood
reflective
somber
Type
psychological
relational
When to use this quote
- counseling
- family meetings
- conflict resolution
- personal journaling
- support groups
Key Concepts
emotional avoidance
cowardice
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we sometimes hide our true feelings?
- How can honest dialogue improve relationships?
A Different Perspective
Avoidance may protect short‑term peace but hinders resolution.
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