Disease Quote by Alain de Botton
“Love is an incurable disease. In love, there is permanent suffering. Those who love and those who are happy are not the same.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Essays on Love, date unknown
Love is a chronic ailment causing ongoing pain; those who love and those who are happy are distinct groups.
In simple terms: Love brings lasting pain; happiness is separate.
Accept love’s challenges while seeking happiness.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- relationships
- mental health
- self‑care
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can love coexist with lasting happiness?
- How do you manage love’s suffering?
Love can be destructive if unbalanced.